MATCH MAKING

Sex as a tool to sustain love
Soul Mate assumes you have by now known how to make your man to propose to you. But, as you very well know, winning your love is only one side of the story. The other side, which in most cases is more difficult, is sustaining the love of your lover.
This week, we present to you several ways of keeping your love alive.
Most times, people tend to shy away from discussing the issue of sex. Yet, no one could give example of sustained love between two lovers where the function of sex is down-played, I mean, have you ever seen lovers still deeply in love after a long time, when either the man or the woman denies the other of sex? In most cases, apart from other factors (sure sex is not the only issue) sex plays a vital role in sustaining the heat).
Revive it: If you do not feel sexy, for one reason or the other, you will recoil whenever your partner needs it, so you must think what makes you sexy, bearing in mind that your partner would need it. A memorable sex keeps the heart beating for the next time and thereby craving the presence of your partner.
Be His whore: Never, be shy, when it comes to whatever you do with your partner. Be suggestive. Send him sexy text messages at random. Don’t wait for a special day.
Make him crave for it Let him salivate whenever he sees you. Put on your best clothes, whenever you are with him, even if it is time for bed. If you are not completely natural when sleeping by his side, then make sure you are covered with sexy linens. Tease him and tell him how you will send him to cloud nine and back just before bed time or even when you are both outside, strolling.
Turn him on: Keep the bedroom sexy. Let it be appealing and all suggestive. Be sure the television in the bedroom is off.
If you must play games, let it be adult only games. You know what I mean? The game suggests what only adults alone are allowed to do. It will turn him on.
Be Innovative: Don’t be too traditional, change styles. Make it fun. There are over 60 different positions for sex. There is no reason you cannot try at least one every week.
Remember, love hardly flows in a straight line. It goes up and down, now to the left, another time to the right, flows and ebbs. You just must have to gauge the mood and top it up!
Change location: Must it be in the bedroom and on top of the bed always?
Try the sitting room, the bathroom and even the kitchen! Don’t even wait for him to make the move always. It could be boring. After sometimes, he would feel that you don’t really need it and that perhaps he is just pestering you. Go for it sometimes. It will make him sit up and avoid unnecessary flirting elsewhere because he knows you may be in the mood and he has to perform his duty.
Your parents cannot revive your love life for you. It starts and ends with you. Marriage is a life time relationship. But it does not have to be boring.
Be free with your man- Don’t hide your feelings for someone you intend to live with forever. It does not make sense or does it?
This column will always take care of your love life. you are free to write your feelings to us. You are free to make suggestions and if you are aware of better ways to keep a relationship, please let us know.
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