MATCH MAKING: LET HIM FIND YOU IRRESISTABLE

Just imagine that your man finds you irresistible! He is ready to kneel down for you, ready to obey you no matter how absurd your demands maybe. In fact, even if you tell him to ignore his relations and his other children from another woman, (though it is not advisable) he is ready to obey you. He is ready to lick every part of you. How will you feel if you are able to achieve that? He has done it to the extent that his mother and father and even siblings, feel you have charmed him. How will you like it? You never charmed him. It is just your predisposition to make yourself likeable that has drawn him to you.
You may think it is impossible, but surely there are women who have achieved that feat. It is not because they are so beautiful or attractive or special or rich. The only thing going for them is that they knows how to hook men. That’s all. A man hardly resists her from the first day they come in contact.
There are some women who have done all they could to get their men to marry them, but they end up being abandoned, while their men went to the village to marry supposed ‘innocent girls’ or even go to marry girls you know as prostitutes. Why?
Every woman has the natural ability to keep her man with her. Some recognize this and utilize it to the fullest, while some don’t.
The truth is that everything to make the man of your heart stick to you is in you. If only you can have the awareness and rise up to the challenge, you will have your heart’s desire without any diabolic means that may go against your religion. There is no religion that teaches you to neglect your man or not to thrive to win him over. All teach you to be submissive and do all you can for him to make you his idol. You have that power. Utilize it and you will be happy you did.
First of all, remember that he may not necessarily be attracted to you just because you have a vast intellect and may match him in a discussion. He may be impressed, but may not get along with you. He may only enjoy being in your company when it comes to intellectual issues. It is just the same way that some men may not necessarily be hooked to you simply because you are great in bed, although it may be an added advantage.
A real affection does not even occur just because you are of the same religion with him. He may praise you as a faithful and reliable person in religious issues, but that does not mean he may like to end up with you forever as husband and wife or give you the desired attention. You must learn to develop the ability to attract your man to yourself, and keep him to yourself. No pretensions! Just be yourself. Let him like you for what you are. It is not that you don’t mind how others feel about your ways.
No! You are not an island. But as much as you do not offend the sensibilities of those around you, be yourself and act out your true character. It attracts a man more than anything else. Once he likes you as you are, including your views, he will stick to you as if you have suddenly charmed or hypnotized him.
Men have clear ideas of what they want from women. It is not just sex. Yes, sex may count, but it is definitely not the only issue. You must take time to study him without letting him know your intention. Once you are able to understand or have an idea of what he looks for in women, it is now left for you to make yourself irresistible for him and he will literally eat off your palm.
Remember however, if a man is not interested in you, no amount of chasing or compliments will convince him to change his mind. It is just the other way round, if a woman does not like you, compliments and even gifts will not make her to change her mind. She may enjoy the gifts but that may not change her feelings. Just try to get the man interested and involved in your life in a natural way that will motivate him and make him care for you, for your happiness and fulfillment. Don’t make the mistake of allowing him know that you want to be cared for by him and that you want him to make you happy. It is better that he feels so by himself than for you to force it on him. Even if you don’t say it out, a man can sense it if all you think of is for him to fulfill your wishes.
You must be smart enough to recognize the signals from him. Men generally like to communicate indirectly. Rarely will a man be able to honestly communicate to a woman whether or not he is ready or capable of developing a meaningful relationship. Women on the other hand, could directly or indirectly let men know if they are open to something more serious. They can also communicate with hints, body language, sarcasm and flirting at the first time they are getting to know a man. Men are different.
Men indirectly send signals to show where he is at his own life stability, confidence, direction. They send signals to show whether or not they are emotionally available, whether they are open to building and growing a relationship in the future. They give these signals by accident when you are dating and if you could recognize them and act accordingly, they will surely find you irresistible. ###