Responses to your questions
This edition of Soul Mate decides to attend to your numerous questions sent to us in this segment, just to give each and every one who had been keen with this column a sense of belonging. We are concerned about all of you. Of course, you are the reason Soul Mate was initiated in The Newswriter.
Is wife battering a sign of love?
Loliya, from Port Harcourt.
Response: Wife battering in the true world of love is an act of inhumanity to a fellow human. It is against the true meaning of sincere love and should not be encouraged in all ramifications. It is also against the Nigeria constitution. Besides, Yahweh frowns at it with seriousness. It also attracts divine punishment. The constitution of Nigeria does not support it and frowns at it hence today, there are different legal aids, non-governmental organizations that stand in favour of those who have been victimized.
Looking at the spiritual side of it, Soul Mate could advise that a true man who is in love can never beat his wife rather he will tolerate and endure her to prove his true gentlemanly manner.
In other words, any man who indulges in wife battering is proving that he has no respect for Yahweh who created him (remember both man and woman were created in the image of Yahweh) Gen. 1:27. So it becomes a serious offence against Yahweh for any man that does that.
Any man who does beat his wife is only demonstrating openly that he does not have love in him, also that he does not know the true meaning of love, because love is believed to be long suffering, obedience and endurance. It then means that love has no place of regret at all times.
I hope I have answered your question, Loliya from Port Harcourt. Good luck.
Keep texting us. Cheers.
How does one know love is fading? T. boy from Borokiri, Port Harcourt.
Response: You will know when love fades from the reactions and actions of your partner. For instance, when your partner have started limiting his or her calls to you, also the way he or she responds to your questions when you are communicating. You will know when love is fading when your partner is no longer interested to receive your call again as often. Most importantly, you will know when love had faded, when your partner has interest in another partner or finds another partner. This will lead him or her to no longer be interested to pick your calls. His or her attitude always come with either quarrel or harsh voice in replying your questions, will also tell you.
I wish you just the best, T. boy, for whatever reason you are texting such question. Good luck. Cheers
Is it wrong for a lady to ask a guy out? Anita, texting from Bonny
Response: There is nothing wrong in a lady asking a guy she is in love with out, but she must be diplomatic and careful in doing that, lest she be embarrassed by ignorant men. This is because some guys may not be matured enough to understand the true meaning of love. So it all boils down to the level of the guy’s maturity and understanding of love. Normally, any lady that has deep interest in any guy and ask him out in expressing her deep love feeling to him should be respected and treated specially with love and regards.
I hope, Anita from Bonny, I have answered your question responsively. Goodluck, cheers
Why is it that some vaginas are too tight? Johnson, from Port Harcourt
Response: The woman’s vagina is believed to be accommodating to any penis. But however, as men’s organs differ, so is that of the women. Some men have bigger organs while some men have smaller organs, it is vice versa. That is the reason while making love, foreplay ought to be prolonged for the vagina to be lubricated so that it could accommodate a bigger penis. Again, sometimes lack of exercise also contributes to the tightness of small vaginas. However, there are foods that could help in this.
Goodluck Johnson from Port Harcourt, Cheers
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