To Yahweh be all the glories that you our esteemed readers believed in what we are doing in the Soul Mate column. Like what I use to tell you, you are the reason this column is introduced. We thank all of you immensely for your patronage, while we will also like to say to some of you who have made up your minds to use the Soul Mate column as sexual exploitation platform, to desist from it .
If you check the content of the Soul Mate column properly you could tell the difference between The Newswriter Soul Mate relationship content with others who are also running relationship columns.
Text messages received of recent are not encouraging, I sincerely take this time to appeal to all who are participating in the Soul Mate column to be practical and real to having a partner for marriage, no more no less.
In our last edition we treated why you should forgive in relationship. We promised to continue on this edition why people hurt their partners in relationship.
WHY PEOPLE HURT THEIR PARTNERS IN RELATIONSHIP.
Partners hurt themselves in relationship because of the ignorance of themselves. Your partner is part of yourself. The earlier partners know the involvement both earthly and spiritually to this important covenant law, no partner in relationship will hurt his or her partner.
(a) Partners hurt themselves because the other person did not realize that the other person is part of his or herself as all were created out of passion and love, in the image of Yahweh our Grand creator.
(b) Out of Adam’s rib the woman was created, if the man or the woman knows this, the problem of hurting one’s partner will never exist. Genesis 1:26-27.
(c) If the man or the woman knows that they are one united body, created to represent the image of Yahweh, there will be no rancour or bitterness in any form no matter how ugly the situation will be.
(d) People hurt their partners because they do not have in-built love in them.
(e) Partners hurt themselves because they do not believe and love themselves as people of one sources of existence.
(f) People hurt their partners because they never understand that they are the happiness of their partners
(g) Every man has a feminine complex built in him, same every woman has male complex inbuilt in her, that is the reason man and woman cannot do without each species. Knowing this will make no partner hurting his or her partner. Doing that means hurting your very self.
(h) If the man knows that he is the father of the woman and ought to protect her happiness he will not hurt her, same if the woman knows that her man is her first son; she will forever protect his interest, happiness and treat him with tenderness and care.
(i) Partners hurt themselves because they do not fear Yahweh artmanship in themselves, because they do not fear, respect and love Yahweh
(j) If man and woman who are in relationship know Yahweh as their Grand creator, the idea of hurting each other will be erased in relationship completely, because doing this will challenge the authority of Yahweh who created the sex organs for our use.
(k) Without man the woman is incomplete, same without the woman the man is incomplete (1Cor. 7:3-4). If man and woman know this, no man or woman will hurt in relationship.
(l) Sincerely speaking each man and woman cannot exist in isolation as this has been arranged from the very beginning of creation. If we all know these factors, no one will have time to hurt the feeling of the other.
(m) Respect and the fear of Yahweh are the most promised factors partners should at will understand to avoid cheating in order not to hurt their partners.
Questions
HE IS CHEATING ON ME
Goodday and happy birthday counselor, please I want to confide in you. There is this guy that I dated last year, precisely November. He told me that he does not have a girlfriend, that I can come to his house anytime. It was not up to one week, when two girls walked in, he told them to sit but they refused and went out. My guy left me and went to them without excuse. I waited for him to come back and I confronted him and he apologized and I forgave him, since then I have been going to his house without problem, not knowing that he was cheating on me, I developed a true love for him. Last week Saturday, I called him that I was coming to his house to collect offering. He said I shouldn’t come, not knowing that another girl was with him, until Sunday in the evening he went and dropped the girl. He saw me and did not say a word to me. I ignored it, then yesterday I caught him as he called on another lady in the night. Please what can I do, because I am heart broken? Hope From Port Harcourt
Ans: Thank you for your birthday wish to me and to the issue at hand, sorry my darling such is the attitude of those who do not value true love in a relationship.
To be frank with you, Hope, the guy you gave your love to do not value your love. He did not regard that love you gave to him. He does not know the meaning of sincere love and above all he does not respect his creator.
To say the simple truth, that guy is a philanderer; he has gotten what he wanted from you, for now, so he is exploiting others. He can only come to you when he sees the need of using you.
My candid advise to you is never regret the time you spent with him but forget him completely because he had no regard for you. I wish you the best of relationship through another man. Philanderers who are not ready for marriage never cares about true love.
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Herbal services
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