Good people of the Soul Mate let me take this time to thank you all for believing in the Soul Mate column, and also beg those who are interested in using the Soul Mate for fun, not to please take the it for fun. Rather, I beg all who are interested in the column to see it as a productive column to help both married and singles find happiness.
It has come to our notice that some men are only interested to call ladies for mundane affairs. I am sorry for those of you that sent me text with the aim of seeing it published in the Soul Mate column only to find out that it was not published. Let me make it clear that I screen text messages. Where your text did not have the required standard you will be disappointed. Some of you do have my call as to be interviewed on what you want because of the tone of your text messages. Some I put you to test by requesting for N500 recharge card. This is to find out your genuineness in what you are requesting for.
For instance, if you want to get married to a lady, won’t you cater for her needs? If you could not afford N500 recharge card how can you take care of a lady you want to spend the rest of your life? You see, let us be real please. We all want a better society, where all will be happy with each other. And one sure way to achieve this is to be real and sincere in all our dealings with the next person. Our life endeavours depend on how we practically live our lives in the society with one another.
This week we are introducing very silent important topic lovers never thought about. Who is your first love? Do you know that your first love have some emotional and spiritual effect on your relationship life? To answer these questions I will want you to sit back, while you are doing some mental ransacking.
Your first love is the one who is supposed to claim you as his or her partner as the case may be, in the eyes of the spiritual law, according to how Yahweh made it. Hence he created Eve specifically for Adam. Genesis 1.27, Deuteronomy 22:29 and Genesis 2:21-25. You may also add 1Corinthians 7 verses 1-3.
Though, we may not all know this important knowledge of our relationship of our first love, the effect it brings to our existence when we waver, not holding unto our first love, that is, when we take it causal, it definitely comes back to hurt us in our relationship. Some were so lucky to have met their divine partners like Adam and Eve, but allow them to slip away, maybe because of lack of understanding or other material reasons. These set of people though they are married are having the negative effect of doing away with their first love (divine partners).
The man, the woman who opened up to the world of sexuality has much more to do in your life, than the ordinary sense of emotional pleasure we think about and feel about. This is the crux of the matter.
Are you with your first love? Even if you are not meant to be together for the law to be maintained, scripturally, the moment you were discovered sleeping with a man or a woman, you are compelled to become the husband or wife of the man, no more no less. Deuteronomy 22:29, one man, one woman. Except in special occasion where a man agrees to marry several women, even in this case the law states that you must make sure you can take care of them all the same way you love candidate A.
The spiritual effect of this law is so strong that some men despite they have every qualification to get married, finds it difficult to get the women folk. Those who are engaged in marriage too do not find sincere happiness. These problems can only be handled by a true servant of Yahweh, lets say, an anointed prophet and priest of Yahweh. Remember marriage is for better or worse, for happiness. Study Deuteronomy 22:29 carefully and you may grasp the meaning of what I am saying. We may treat the effect it generates in our relationship life when holding unto out first love. This will also bring us to treating “Divine Right.”
Questions
I always prefer taller men to shorter men in marriage. Is it wrong?
Dear Editor, I am Gladys, 26 years old lady, residing in Port Harcourt. Please I have a problem. My problem is, however handsome a man looks, I prefer a taller man to shorter man in marriage. Is this wrong?
Ans: Dear Gladys, what do you want in marriage? Is it happiness or physical, material beauty? My candid advice to you is pray to Yahweh to show you your husband that will make you to be happy whether short or tall, that is if you are not married.
Love Doctor, who is a good woman to get married t?, Please tell me.
Dear Editor, you are indeed a love doctor, please tell me who is a good woman to get married to? I am 35 years old, business man about to get married. I am Richard Ade.
Ans: Dear Ade, while I will advise you to go into prayer, I will give you this piece of advice. Beauty is good but endeavour to look out for character. The good woman to get married to is that woman that cares for you, regard your family and worry about your needs and happiness. The woman who respects you even the days there is nothing to eat in the house. The woman who supports your heart desire that make you happy, that bring you spiritual happiness, the woman that encourages you to work in the way of Yahweh, that is the good woman to get married to.
Star Service
Last edition we discussed the behaviour of the zodiac sign, Pisces (Feb 19 March 20). This edition we will highlight Pisces’ most favourable day, and most favourable months.
Pisces most favourable day in the week is Wednesdays while May and September are the most favourable months of the Pisceans.
Those who want to know their right partners in marriage relationship according to their stars should fulfill the conditions of N500 recharge card of any of the networks, Glo, Etisalat, Mtn or Airtel This goes for those who want to know their career/job suitable prospects according to their star (zodiac signs)
Herbal Services
For the obese women, please exercise regularly and spice it with rigorous sex with your man. Eat plenty of fruits and vegetables, eat less of starchy food. Don’t fail to eat plenty of bitter leaves while you abstain from drinking canned drinks.
For the men with low sperm count, please do well to eat plenty of green vegetables, nuts, groundnuts, fresh prawn, water crab, abstain from sex for a longer time for good result, eat plenty of okro regularly.
Wishing you good. Good Luck ####
Allanso Jonathan Allans
